Xu Jinhuan is a full-time lover. He spends most of his time either seeking for his Ms Right or talking about his story. After on-again-and-off-again for several times, he has developed some theory regarding love and marriage, which though he has failed to make happen. One of his recent theory sounds like the following: an ideal man/woman to marriage must meet some, if not all, roles. If he/she fails any of the four roles, walk away as soon as you can even if she is a fairy beauty.
1. Playmate, who lives a happy life with you
2. soulmate, who cares about each other and listens to each other and help out with ideas for career
3. lover, who your heart resorts to
4. husband or wife, with whom you live together with daily trivia all life.
Unfortunately, after searching for years, you will find it impossible to have someone who possesses all four virtues/functions. You all but have to make a tradeoff. You may end up with someone with two (at least one) of the four roles. But these days on the downturn of general morality, if you can’t tell if this person is likely to have any of the four critiria whatsoever in the future, the only benchmark you can give up is that he/she must be smart enough.
His theory is not flawless. In fact, the theory simply serves as painkiller or comfort.
What disappoints him is his Ms Right is far from his reach yet though he is confident he possesses all four virtues. After breaking off many times,he believes he can resist any sexual seduction, which I doubt, and he simply wants a good marriage.
Who will buy his self-statement?